Thursday, August 6, 2015

How To Stay Faithful When You Seem To Be the Only One


Friday, July 17, 2015 (last updated Tuesday, October 13, 2015)

This morning as I read Mormon chapter 2, I was amazed at the kind of person Mormon was. And with current events the way they are, this topic has been on my mind.

At age 10, he was approached by a prophet named Ammaron who observed that Mormon was a “sober child,” and “quick to observe,” and that when he turned 24 to get the plates and make a record of his people and the things he saw. How would you feel if, when you were ten years old, that President Monson came to you and asked you to go find certain plates that he would leave in a mountain cave and record all of the doings of your civilization? Would you feel maybe a little overwhelmed? Humbled? Wanting to prepare as much as possible? I think if I were in his shoes, I would probably start making a record so that later I wouldn’t have to rack my memory later of everything I’ve watched unfold.

At age 11, he moved with his family to “the land southward.” I’m sure this wasn’t an easy thing. No one likes to move during their pre-teen and teen years. At least I didn’t.

At age 15, he is visited by Christ and “knew of the goodness of Jesus.” Wow. It seems to be one of the Lord’s patterns with many of his chosen prophets who prepare themselves—that they are called from a young age. Jeremiah was about 8. Samuel was about 12. Joseph Smith was 14. We have little recorded of Christ’s early years, but we do know he was found in the temple at age 12. What were you up to at that age? Can you imagine if Christ had visited you at age 15?

At age 16, he is appointed as leader of the Nephite armies as a war was stirring with the Lamanites. He first leads 42,000 Nephites in defense against 44,000 Lamanites. Would you be ready to lead an army at age 16? How about an army of 42,000?

At age 24, he retrieves the plates from the hill Shim where they are deposited and makes a record of all that he has witnessed thus far.

In his late twenties or early thirties, he leads another Nephite army of 30,000 against a Lamanite army of 50,000.

He lived in constant turmoil.

He watched all of the disciples get taken away (Mormon 1:13, 16).

He watched miracles, healings, spiritual gifts, and the Holy Ghost cease because of the iniquity, wickedness, and unbelief of the people (Mormon 1:13-14).

He was stopped by the Lord from preaching to the people because “they had willfully rebelled against their God” and because of “the hardness of their hearts” (Mormon 1:16, 17). How awful to have to sit back and watch a continual scene of wickedness and not even be able to go out and proselyte!

He had to live in a land that was cursed insomuch that people couldn’t keep their property and where Satan’s power was unleashed because of the people’s wickedness (Mormon 1:17-19).

He witnessed wars, “blood and carnage,” and continual robbery, murders, and dark arts. Mormon records that “a continual scene of wickedness and abominations has been before mine eyes ever since I have been sufficient to behold the ways of man” (Mormon 1, 2:8, 10, 18). No wonder he was considered a sober child. How would you feel living in his time? Reading the news every day, I feel that our eras are very similar. No wonder latter-day prophets have said that the Book of Mormon was written for our very day and time! President Ezra Taft Benson taught:

“The Book of Mormon was written for us today. God is the author of the book. It is a record of a fallen people, compiled by inspired men for our blessing today. Those people never had the book—it was meant for us. Mormon, the ancient prophet after whom the book is named, abridged centuries of records. God, who knows the end from the beginning, told him what to include in his abridgment that we would need for our day. Mormon turned the records over to his son Moroni, the last recorder; and Moroni, writing over 1, 500 years ago but speaking to us today, states: ‘Behold, I speak unto you as if ye were present, and yet ye are not. But behold, Jesus Christ hath shown you unto me, and I know your doing.’ (Mormon 8:35.) …
“As we read and teach, we are to liken the Book of Mormon scriptures unto us ‘that it might be for our profit and learning.’ (1 Ne. 19:23.)” (Ensign, May 1975; emphasis added.)

President Benson spoke again of the reason we have the Book of Mormon today in another general conference of the church:

“Once we realize how the Lord feels about this book, it should not surprise us that He also gives us solemn warnings about how we receive it. After indicating that those who receive the Book of Mormon with faith, working righteousness, will receive a crown of eternal glory (D&C 20:14), the Lord follows with this warning: ‘But those who harden their hearts in unbelief, and reject it, it shall turn to their own condemnation’ (D&C 20:15).
“It is not just that the Book of Mormon teaches us truth, though it indeed does that. It is not just that the Book of Mormon bears testimony of Christ, though it indeed does that, too. But there is something more. There is a power in the book which will begin to flow into your lives the moment you begin a serious study of the book. You will find greater power to resist temptation. You will find the power to avoid deception. You will find the power to stay on the strait and narrow path.
“…Brethren and sisters, I implore you with all my heart that you consider with great solemnity the importance of the Book of Mormon to you personally and to the Church collectively.” (Ensign, November 1986.)

This great prophet was constantly teaching that we must flood the earth with the Book of Mormon:

“The time is long overdue for a massive flooding of the earth with the Book of Mormon for the many reasons which the Lord has given. In this age of the electronic media and the mass distribution of the printed word, God will hold us accountable if we do not now move the Book of Mormon in a monumental way.” (Ensign, November 1988.)

He served and loved the people regardless of their evil ways.

He sought to bring them the word of God to help them repent and find true happiness but was forbidden by the Lord (Mormon 1:16-17).

He fortifies and strengthens every city and gathers every people that he brings his army to, protecting them as much as he can with his armies against the Lamanites (Mormon 2:4-8, 20-21).

He magnified every calling and assignment he received.

I am amazed at Mormon’s ability to be both detailed and broad. His great task was to take the heaps and heaps of records that had been passed down from prophet to prophet (from 600 BC to about 400 AD when he lived) and abridge them—to take those parts which are most “plain and precious” and compile them into one book. He was a great historian. He was a great steward, as we see in his ability to take care of many cities, peoples, armies, and records. I believe he had a natural talent or spiritual gift for such, and was born, just as we all are, at the time on earth when God needed him the most.


So why did it have to be so hard for Mormon?
And why is it so hard for all of us
who are striving to do what is right?


That is largely a topic for another discussion, but suffice it to say:

“It is the way it is because we must learn to be righteous in the dark.” (Brigham Young’s Office Journal, 28 January 1857.)

Spencer W. Kimball taught: “If all the sick for whom we pray were healed, if all the righteous were protected and the wicked destroyed, the whole program of the Father would be annulled and the basic principle of the gospel, free agency, would be ended. No man would have to live by faith.” (Read entire lesson to learn more. I love the direct, no-nonsense way President Kimball taught.)

C.S. Lewis clearly put it: “No man knows how bad he is till he has tried very hard to be good. A silly idea is current that good people do not know what temptation means. This is an obvious lie. Only those who try to resist temptation know how strong it is. After all, you find out the strength of the German army by fighting against it, not by giving in. You find out the strength of a wind by trying to walk against it, not by lying down. A man who gives in to temptation after five minutes simply does not know what it would have been like an hour later. That is why bad people, in one sense, know very little about badness — they have lived a sheltered life by always giving in. We never find out the strength of the evil impulse inside us until we try to fight it: and Christ, because He was the only man who never yielded to temptation, is also the only man who knows to the full what temptation means — the only complete realist.”

In a General Conference address, Elder Quentin L. Cook of the Quorum of the Twelve said, “I appreciated the conference address President Dieter F. Uchtdorf gave in 2010 about the famous marshmallow experiment conducted at Stanford University in the 1960s. You will remember that four-year-olds were given a single marshmallow. If they could wait for 15 or 20 minutes without eating it, they would receive a second marshmallow. Videos have been produced showing the contortions that many children used to avoid eating the marshmallow. Some did not succeed.

“Last year the professor who conducted the original experiment, Dr. Walter Mischel, wrote a book in which he said the study grew in part out of his concerns about self-control and his own addiction to smoking. He was particularly concerned after the U.S. Surgeon General’s report of 1964 concluded that smoking caused lung cancer. After years of study, one of his professional colleagues reported that ‘self-control is like a muscle: the more you use it, the stronger it gets. Avoiding something tempting once will help you develop the ability to resist other temptations in the future.’

“A principle of eternal progression is that exercising self-control and living righteously strengthen our ability to resist temptation. This is true both in the spiritual realm and in temporal matters” [emphasis added].
God respects our ability to choose so much that he will never force us to do anything—we must choose for ourselves how close we want to be to Him and to our Savior.

My husband is currently reading an old favorite, The Count of Monte Cristo, by Alexandre Dumas. As I discussed this blog post with him, he was reminded of a dialogue between two of the main characters. The wrongfully imprisoned Dantes spoke to an old, wise man who is also imprisoned, named Abbe Faria:

“I was reflecting upon the enormous degree of intelligence and ability you must have employed to reach the high perfection to which you have attained; - if you thus surpass all mankind as a prisoner, what would you not have accomplished as a free man?”
Faria: “Possibly nothing at all; - the overflow of my brain would probably, in a state of freedom, have evaporated in a thousand follies; it needs trouble and difficulty and danger to hollow out various mysteries and hidden mines of human intelligence.”

Cannons only fire because of intense heat and pressure. We too find out our own true inner capabilities when under great pressure, and Mormon was no different.
The prophet Lehi, teaching one of his younger sons, spoke of the need we have for opposition so that we can make choices:

“For it must needs be, that there is an opposition in all things. If not so, my first-born in the wilderness, righteousness could not be brought to pass, neither wickedness, neither holiness nor misery, neither good nor bad.
“And now, my sons, I speak unto you these things for your profit and learning; for there is a God, and he hath created all things, both the heavens and the earth, and all things that in them are, both things to at and things to be acted upon.
“And to bring about his eternal purposes … Wherefore, the Lord God gave unto man that he should act for himself. Wherefore, man could not act for himself save it should be that he was enticed by the one or the other.” (2 Nephi 2:11, 14-16.)


But how did Mormon survive living among such sin and darkness?
Where did he find hope? Where did he find solace?
How did he stay faithful when it seemed he was the only one?


He focused on the Lord.

He found purpose in following the commandment the Lord gave him (Mormon 3:16) in writing to us--the Gentiles, the house of Israel, and the ends of the earth—he wrote to everyone! If I was him, I too would be saying, “Everyone and anyone, listen! Hear what I’ve seen! Hear what is coming! Hear what I have to say and be prepared!” Thus, here are some things he hoped we would do:

1)      He urged us to know that we will stand before the judgment seat of Christ to be judged of our works whether good or evil (Mormon 3:20, 7:5, 8, 10).
2)      He urged us to believe the gospel of Jesus Christ (Mormon 3:21).
3)      He urged us to believe that Jesus is the Christ (Mormon 3:21; 7:5).
4)      He urged us to repent, be baptized, and prepare for that judgment day with God (Mormon 3:22; 7:5, 8, 10).
5)      He urged us to know that we are of the house of Israel (Mormon 7:2, 10).
6)      He urged us to lay down our weapons of war, delight not in shedding blood, and not to take them up again unless God commands (Mormon 7:4).
7)      He urged us to read and believe in the veracity of the Bible and the Book of Mormon (Mormon 7:8-9).

I know that Mormon was a real person. He lived and did everything he said he did. The Book of Mormon is a true record. If we read it with a humble heart, we can develop a close relationship with our Savior, Jesus Christ, of whom this book testifies. That relationship will bring us more joy, more peace, and more security than anything this world has to offer.


I hope some of my thoughts here have been inspiring. I hope they have given you a little more courage to know that you can be righteous when it seems you are the only one. You, like Mormon, can serve and love people regardless of their sins, magnify every calling and assignment you receive, and focus your life on the Lord.